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Do you have a high-maintenance child?
Does your child have ODD
* ADHD
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ADD or other
challenging personality?
Is their behavior driving you CRAZY?
Then keep reading because I'm about to show you...
A
Behavior
Modification Program designed to help parents with high-maintenance children
(from about 6 to 12 years old).
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There seems to be a lot of information about behaviors associated with
ODD, ADHD and
ADD, however there are very FEW affordable behavior
modification PROGRAMS designed to help parents
"reprogram" their kids thought processes.
I know, because my
daughter was diagnosed with Oppositional Defiant
Disorder. At the time, I was
told it would take
years of therapy
and a
prescription medication
regime to deal with her oppositional and defiant
personality.
I was also told that once my daughter
became a teen, I could expect her defiance to go to a whole new level
and her medications would be adjusted as necessary.
I decided there was no way I was going to
“accept my daughter’s behavior as a lifestyle
"
and there was no
way I
was going to put her on long-term drug therapy, so
I began searching for a program to help me change my daughters defiant
thought processes.
I knew that if I could
change the way my daughter thinks, the results would last
forever. It was just a matter of finding a cognitive behavior
program designed for kids her age.
But the therapist knew of no such programs for kids with ODD and could only suggest
drugs and therapy. (Job security, I totally understand.)
So after reading everything about
Oppositional Defiant Disorder that I could get my hands on, I created
a program myself! Using this simple behavior modification program I was able
to "rewire" my daughters thought process.
In doing so, I was able to gain
back my sanity and eliminate the meltdowns associated
with my daughters ODD.
In less than 18 months, I went from parenting a child who left me
physically and emotionally exhausted at the end of each and every
day, to parenting a wonderful and well behaved daughter with no
signs of ODD.
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Dear Parent,
Now that I have your attention, let me
give you a little background on the C.A.R.S. for Kids
behavior modification program.
C.A.R.S. for Kids is a behavior modification program designed by a parent (me) who was exasperated because
I could not find an affordable
and tangible
product to help me deal
with my daughters Oppositional Defiant
Disorder.
Shortly after my daughter turned 3, I
noticed her behavior starting to change.
By the time she was 4 she was having
temper tantrums (meltdowns) that rocked my world. If you have a child with
Oppositional
Defiant Disorder you know what I am talking about.
Meltdowns are NOT like normal temper
tantrums. During a
meltdown, your child generally looses complete control of their
mental facilities and they JUST GO NUTS.
And it can last for hours...
My daughters meltdowns typically occurred every night and lasted 2 – 3
hours, in
which time there was screaming, hitting, biting, violence,
destruction, chaos and general mayhem.
It was
CRAZY!!!
After about a year and a half of this behavior,
I
was at my wits end! I started searching the internet for
information
on temper tantrums. (At the time, I just thought they were
bionic temper tantrums.)
I ran across descriptions of
ODD and knew immediately it was what my daughter had.
In order to confirm my suspicion, I took my
daughter to a therapist for a diagnosis. Many sessions later, the therapist did diagnose
my daughter with ODD.
She said I could expect my daughter’s behavior to get worse and I
should baton down the hatches because once my daughters hormones
kicked, I could expect her defiance to go to a whole
new level. She stated that
medication and therapy is the standard
course of action for kids with ODD.
I was devastated.
There was no way I was going to
“accept my daughter’s behavior as a lifestyle"
and I certainly was not going to put her on drugs if I could find
ANY way of avoiding it!
So, it was back to the drawing board. I
began searching for a tangible
program that my daughter and I could use at home. Something I could
use to "purposefully" reprogram her combative personality and stop her meltdowns.
In my search for an actual product, I
found only information. I could NOT find a tangible program that
I could afford
and that I
could use at home with my daughter.
After reading two books in particular, I
was struck with an idea! I created a program which consisted of rewarding
my daughter with credits for positive behavior.
In exchange for the credits she would have to
purchase any of the typical things that kids have, using her credits. I
turned EVERYTHING into a reward and if she wanted anything
what-so-ever,
she needed credits to spend!
I created two
lists (a credit list and a reward list) and each
evening we went over both lists. My daughter was rewarded with credits for
her positive behaviors and in turn, she spent her credits on rewards (and
remember, I turned EVERYTHING into a reward).
And you know what happened?
In less than 30
days I had a different child
NO
KIDDING!
There was a
HUGE difference
in my daughters behavior, just in the first 30 days!
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She
was going to
bed - without melting down.
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She
was getting
into her pajamas - without melting down.
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She was
taking a bath - without melting down (HOLY SMOKES!)
She was remembering to brush her
teeth - without being reminded.
She was remembering to wash her
hands - after going to the bathroom.
She was taking her dishes to the
sink - after she finished her meals.
She was putting her clothes in the
hamper - not leaving them on the floor.
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She
was
getting dressed in the mornings - without her AM meltdown.
She
was taking NO for an answer - without melting down (This was HUGE)
She was going through her entire nighttime
routine - without a meltdown!
I
was AMAZED at
the transformation. 
What was the end result?
Using the
C.A.R.S. for Kids system,
her meltdowns were eliminated and her defiance was reduced by about 90%.
If you were to meet my daughter today, you would have
NO IDEA that she had been challenged with
Oppositional Defiant Disorder.
Using
the program...
I was able to "REWIRE"
her thought process without medication or
therapy.
In order to assist other parents of other high
maintenance children (from the ages of about 6 to 12 years old) I have made the C.A.R.S. for Kids behavior modification program available
to purchase.
The program is available in
two formats.
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PHYSICAL
kit mailed to your home.
$49.95 + $12.00 shipping
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20-page instruction manual which explains the entire
C.A.R.S.
for Kids program.
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A list of books I
recommend for parents of parents of challenging kids.
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A CD with the credit lists in
Microsoft Word
and Microsoft Excel.
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Five (5)
bags of colorful credits to use with your child.
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The ENTIRE
KIT is mailed to your
home, via Priority Mail, US Postal Service.
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This option is a bit more
expensive, but if you don't want to run to the craft store and
purchase something to use as credits, it's a great option!
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You get everything you
need to have the program up and running right away.
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Electronic kit.
$19.95
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20-page instruction manual which explains the entire
C.A.R.S.
for Kids program.
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A list of books I
recommend for parents of parents of challenging kids.
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The credit lists in
Microsoft Word
and Microsoft Excel.
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The instruction manual and
the credit lists will be emailed to you within 24 hours of
purchase. (Sorry it's not instant, but I have yet to figure out
how to do that)
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The Electronic kit is your
best option if you are on a budget. You will need to
purchase something so you have FIVE of the same product in
FIVE DIFFERENT VARIATIONS. I recommend using the GLASS GEMS
available at your local craft store.
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PHYSICAL
KIT
$49.95 + $12.00 shipping
You get the entire
kit MAILED (Priority Mail) to your home.
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ELECTRONIC
KIT
$19.95
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For less than
the cost of HALF
a tank of gas!
The C.A.R.S. for Kids program can help you modify just about behavior:
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Temper Tantrums
Meltdowns
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Defiance
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Disrespect
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Violence
Inattention
Forgetfulness
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Homework challenges
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Doing chores
Sharing with siblings
If you have a child between
the ages of 6 and 12 years old and you are serious about reprogramming your child’s
behavior, you owe it to yourself
(and your sanity) to
purchase this kit.
Please choose from two options.
1) You want to purchase the PHYSICAL KIT
for $49.95 + $12.00 shipping and have the whole thing mailed to your
home. The PHYSICAL KIT includes everything you need
to have your kit up and running without making a trip to the store to
purchase glass gems (or something else to use as credits).
2) You want
to purchase the ELECTRONIC KIT for $19.95 and have it emailed to you. You
will receive the instruction manual and credit lists via email.
You will need to go to the craft store and purchase the glass gems (or
something comparable) yourself.
Click the "Buy Now" button below and
you will be take to Paypal for payment. Paypal is a secure
merchant service where you can use your credit card for payment.
If you need to justify the
expense...
Skip taking
the family out for dinner ONE TIME and it's paid for!
P.S.
It doesn't matter what behavior you want to modify (defiance,
forgetfulness, inattention, chores, doing homework, disrespect, violence) the
C.A.R.S. for Kids behavior
modification program can work for you!
P.P.S.
If I can do it -
YOU
CAN DO IT!!!!!
Questions or comments before you buy?
jazznday@aol.com
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